I was nearly halfway done with a draft for today’s blog post, which was flowing rather well and shaping up to be quite coherent, when I realized something:
The whole premise was incredibly sad.
Like, I was practically crying as I wrote it. As much as I don’t want to cry in public today, I have even less of a desire to make anyone else sad today, and so I scrapped the entire thing and decided to write about something else entirely.
So.
For the past we’re-not-going-to-say-how-many-months-because-Bible-study-isn’t-a-race, I’ve been working my way through the book of Psalms (in tandem with wandering my way through some of the New Testament in no discernable order). And, y’all, among all of the many lessons I’ve been learning while I camp among the poems, it has become abundantly clear that David is dramatic. He’s also an enneagram 4.
Sidebar, because I don’t think I’ve talked about enneagram here, and that’s definitely another can of worms for another day, but if you’re already familiar with the enneagram but not super familiar with me, I’m a 4. I haven’t decided with which wing I most identify, but I’m definitely a 4.
Enneagram 4s are often referred to either as Individualists or Romantics. We are supposedly the most rare enneagram type (not particularly important to me but it’s a point of pride for many 4s, so I’d be remiss not to mention it) and are usually creative, emotional beings. We crave acceptance that we feel we’ll never truly experience because no one can ever fully understand the workings of our complex minds, and I think a bunch of us are empaths. I know I sure as heck am, which I’ve complained about here far less than I might have because the pandemic was really stinking tough to experience as an empath.
But back to David.
This morning I was in Psalm 142, which David wrote while hiding in a cave while the then-king Saul tried to hunt him down to murder him. In all fairness to David, hiding in a cave under any circumstances is a bummer, and I can’t imagine the extra layers that come with a) hiding for your life from b) a man whom you used to charm with your harp skills, all because c) God has declared you the rightful king of Israel once this other guy, who is literally insane, dies. If anyone’s got a right to write some angsty poem-prayers, it’s probably David. So I’m not here to criticize him.
Actually, I’m here because the theme of the tear-jerker blog post I almost wrote was how the world crushes the things that are soft and vulnerable and sensitive. As someone still working through the aftermath of being a hyper-sensitive child who had to build walls to protect her heart growing up, David’s vulnerability—in Psalm 142 and throughout the entire book of Psalms—shouted out truth to me this morning in phrasing I hadn’t heard before.
See, David was a man after God’s own heart (1 Sam. 13:14, Acts 13:22).
And David, the man after God’s own heart, was emotional, sensitive, vulnerable, and soft.
I am emotional, sensitive, vulnerable, and soft.
The world sometimes says that being those things makes me broken and weak, but God? God said that it made David the man to write the poetry of the Bible; the man whose words are full of Messianic prophecies—whose life was a Messianic prophecy; the man from whom would proceed the Messiah, Emmanuel himself.
Do you see? Do you understand how incredibly freeing that is for those of us who feel constantly like we’re somehow this fractured mess of too-much and not-enough all the time?
In my ”best” moments, I can be organized and driven and ruthlessly logical, but what if those aren’t my best moments at all? What if, like Jesus shouts throughout the gospels, the kingdom standard for “best” is wildly different from what the world tries to pawn off on us?
What if I am enough just as I am?
Since I last updated this blog, plagued by the sense that I wasn’t living in the fullness of joy offered to me because I was too content being comfortable in bland survival, I’ve started setting my alarm clock half an hour earlier to clear time in my morning for consistent Bible study. As I suspected, hearing that alarm blaring at 5:45am is not my favorite thing, but by golly, y’all, there’s nothing quite so sweet as when I’m nestled in my armchair with my journal and I find that I can all but hear my Abba-father’s heartbeat as I curl up in His lap.
“I don’t want to look in a stranger’s eyes when I come into this place; let me grow familiar with the lines, the lines upon your face.”
– I Confess by Tenth Avenue North
Those lyrics often float through my head in those precious, quiet morning moments. Because the more I get to know the God of the Universe, the more I find that I want to memorize every contour of who He is. And the more I learn the contours of who He is, the more I realize that there is a spot, pressed close against his heartbeat, that is exactly the size and shape to fit my unique design.
David was dramatic.
So am I.
There’s a place in the kingdom for both of us.
There’s a place in the kingdom for us.
– Melissa